A little encouragement goes a long way, especially for pastors. Sitting down to study for, write and edit sermons takes supernatural focus. Preaching into a camera is not easy or ideal. The hybrid approach to worship services will remain long after the pandemic wanes. Planning and proclaiming weekly messages accounts for only a portion of the pastor’s work.

Leadership is a dirty job. The case studies in seminary were helpful, but nothing prepares you for the betrayal, triangulation, and trauma most ministers experience throughout their career. Receiving a critical email, listening to a cryptic voice message, seeing shared posts on social media from parishioners, and holding heavy, sacred space is a day in the life of a pastor. However, amid a steady barrage of projected anxiety and jealousy, there are glimpses of gratitude.

Pastors don’t surrender to the ministry to be praised; they minister to be faithful, walking worthy of the calling they received from God. Here’s a secret you may not know: A few uplifting words to your pastor are magical. Like a water, saline, and electrolytes solution to the dehydrated, writing four little words can turn a tough day into a bearable one. Here are a few notes of reassurance that your pastor needs to hear from you sooner than later:

“Great message, thank you.”

“How are you really?”

“You are my pastor.”

“See you next week!”

“Grateful for your ministry.”

“Want some ice cream?”

“Your work is valuable.”

“I prayed for you.”

“How is your family?”

“You inspired me today.”

“How can I help?”

“You are a gift.”

If your pastor shared this article, chances are they’re not fishing for compliments. So, go ahead, unlock your phone, and send a short message to your pastor (or someone else you really care about). I guarantee those four little words will brighten their day. Plus, making someone’s day usually improves yours!